Jehannum wrote:I just wanted to share a little about my perspective on Dasaria and how it relates to the players, and more importantly how the players interact with each other.
Dasaria is not an eq or wow or anything of the like. We don’t get paid to run, build, or administrate it, and you the players do not have to pay to play it. The staff builds and (will eventually, when we get a client that is worth a dang) DMs dasaria for fun.
Dasaria to me, is an extension of my home. We bought and paid for the server that runs it, the bandwidth you play on, the forums you post on etc etc. Now, that is not to say that it cannot be your home to. We welcome all who come to join and participate and make it something special, and something special it is!
As you are playing in my home, there are certain codes of behavior that I expect from my guests and that my guests can expect from a host. I expect my guests to treat each other respectfully. If you went to a nice dinner at your bosses house, would you insult his neighbor? No..That would be bad manners, wouldn’t it?
Now, assuming that you insulted his neighbor and ruined his dinner...What would your boss do? Well he would probably ask you to leave the party and you may well lose your job over it.
Would you insult your boss if you didn’t like what was on your plate? Good manners say that you would chew your food and smile and make good conversation with the other people there. If you hated the food there, you could just politely decline the invitation next time.
Also, if your boss wasn’t pleased with the way that you acted, he may well not invite you to his dinner party next time, and he may put a password on his door and make it exclusive invitation only.

Get my drift?
Please remember that a player is not -owed- anything but fair enforcement of the server rules. We do our best, but are very human. We do this for fun.
Please conduct yourselves as guests in my home would and you will make things better for me.